Being awakened up by a street sweeper and blaring sirens is not the most pleasant experience. We spent the summer involved in ministry in St. Louis and Baton Rouge, and had gotten used to a relatively serene environment. Those intrusive sounds outside our windows means that we’re back in the Bronx, and a new school year has begun.
During our retreat marking the beginning of the year, we learned valuable life lessons – the most important being not to judge others – that will be our guiding principles for the upcoming semester and the rest of our lives.
Fr. Kevin MacDonald of the Baltimore Province, our retreat master, pointed out in his talk about the prodigal son that we are all sinners who need the mercy of Christ. He explained that both sons in that parable were at fault: the prodigal son lost in his sinfulness, and the older son lost in his pride. Ultimately, the prodigal son recognized his sins and knew that he had to repent.
Later in the week, we were reminded of God’s lavish love – the prodigal father who readily forgives any and all mistakes as long as we turn back to him and repent. After receiving God’s forgiveness, we are likewise called not to judge others for any reason, including but not limited to their sinfulness, identity, race or background.
Fr. Kevin’s words affirmed our summer experiences where we learned to prioritize the ministry, be inclusive of all people, and share our gifts and talents. God created us all unique and distinct, and we are all loved!
This retreat also gave us time to bond with one another and support each another in our discernment journeys. Some of us did yoga on the beach together, some relaxed in the pool, and others did the four-mile round trip walk from the retreat house on the nearby boardwalk.
In addition to both of us, Dominick Do-Tong for the Denver Province and Andrew Jones and Son Lai for the Baltimore Province have returned for the new school year.
We welcomed three new community members to the Redemptorist Pre-Novitiate Program residence at Immaculate Conception Parish: Cody Hill (30) for the Denver Province; and Dang Nguyen (21) and Eric Monahan (44) for the Baltimore Province.
We’re getting to know them through our interactions, ranging from theological discussions to relaxing moments during our retreat.
“The Redemptorists have managed to create a feeling of home for those of us yearning for a place where we can feel like a family while also serving the Lord,” Cody said. “We come from all walks of life, but we still act as one body. Formation helps instill that bond of brotherly cooperation while also promoting understanding of different cultures.”
Dang Nguyen said it has been a confusing start to a new life with a religious community, but he is excited to discover the new challenges in store. Eric is happy and joyful about joining the program. “It has been a heartwarming experience getting to know my fellow brothers…without community, I am nothing.”
We’re excited to learn more about their vibrant personalities and what talents they bring to the Redemptorist Bronx community, adding more spice to our melting pot of cultures.
Even though we’ve only been together for a few weeks, some students have been able to explore a bit of what New York offers. We have visited iconic landmarks like the High Line, Little Island on the Hudson River, and even the cornucopia of coffee shops, where some of us undoubtedly will be fueling ourselves with caffeine while typing out philosophy research papers and assignments most weekends. We even figured out how to play Jingle Bells on musical squares set into the floor – a testament to our retreat’s message of thriving when we share our gifts.
Cruising down the Grand Central Parkway after our first week at St. John’s University in Queens, we reflected on our classes. We are tackling a variety of course concentrations: the social teaching of the Catholic Church, the metaphysical nature of black holes, Plato’s Phaedrus, and more. As we continue this semester, we hope to share the lessons we learned from working in Redemptorist parishes during the summer, build a deeper relationship with God, persevere in our studies, and grow in the Redemptorist charism.